In search of a real man

yes I know the title is just a fairy tale but that doesn't mean a woman cant dream right? Yes I love my husband but he no longer wants to be my husband, now what? I have three kids, no job because im a stay at home mom, and I have no time for school or a paying job (trust me I have tried). I want the man I married back, I wish he would get his head out of his ass and realize that its not a hat.